MY BF TRIED TO USE MY MONEY TO IMPRESS HIS FRIENDS, SO I TAUGHT HIM A LESSON IMMEDIATELY.
Ben and I come from different financial backgrounds, and I’ve always been the one covering most of our expenses. I’ve even paid for his nights out with his buddies! But last week, at his high school reunion, things took a turn.
Ben started ordering the priciest meals, boasting to everyone about how “successful” he was and how he constantly spoiled me, while claiming I just “stayed home.”
I bit my tongue—until the bill arrived. Ben grandly announced, “I’ll take care of it!” like a hero, only to sneakily text me, asking for my card to cover the tab. And, man, that was the last straw. I literally lost it. So I decided to teach him a lesson in the BEST WAY EVER. And, God, you should’ve seen his face!
I glanced at my phone and saw the text: “Babe, can you send me your card details? The bill’s pretty big.”
I sat back in my chair, watching Ben laugh and bask in the admiration of his old friends. He looked so proud of himself, like he was the king of the night. But all I could feel was a deep sense of frustration. This wasn’t the first time he’d tried to use my money to look good, but the way he blatantly lied about who was funding his life this time? That was new.
Fine, I thought. If he wanted to play this game, I was about to change the rules.
Instead of transferring the money or responding, I quietly signaled the waiter. With a calm, polite smile, I asked him to split the bill—Ben’s portion and mine. The waiter hesitated, looking at Ben as if waiting for confirmation. I nodded reassuringly, leaning in to make sure Ben couldn’t overhear me.
“Just for me, please. I’ll be paying for my own meal.”
A few minutes later, the waiter returned with the two separate bills. As I casually picked mine up and swiped my card, I heard the murmur of confusion at the table grow. Ben’s friends were still laughing, but I could see Ben’s face starting to change as he realized what was happening.
He finally checked his phone again, seeing no transfer from me, then looked up in a panic as the waiter handed him the second bill—the hefty one. The color drained from his face. I could practically see him doing the math, realizing he didn’t have nearly enough in his account to cover the amount he’d racked up. His smug smile melted away, replaced by wide-eyed horror.
“What’s going on?” one of his friends asked, glancing at me.
“Oh,” I said sweetly, “I only paid for myself this time. You see, Ben’s been spoiling me so much lately that I figured I should give him a break and let him take care of the bill all by himself.”
Everyone at the table turned to Ben, who was now fumbling with his phone, trying to figure out a way out of the situation. His friends looked confused, their admiration quickly turning to awkward sympathy as they watched him flounder.
“Wait… didn’t you say you always pay?” one of his buddies asked, raising an eyebrow.
Ben mumbled something incoherent, but it was too late. The truth was out, and he looked absolutely humiliated.
“Ben, if you can’t afford it, maybe you should’ve stuck to the basics,” I said, loud enough for everyone to hear. “No need to pretend you’re someone you’re not. Just be yourself.”
The silence at the table was deafening, and Ben’s face was now a deep shade of red. His friends, clearly embarrassed for him, started offering to chip in, but the damage was done. Ben’s façade had crumbled right in front of them.
After paying for my share, I grabbed my purse and stood up. “I’ll be heading out now. Ben, enjoy the rest of the night,” I said, giving him a pointed look.
As I walked out of the restaurant, I didn’t feel a single ounce of regret. If he wanted to use my money to play the big shot, he’d now have to think twice before trying it again.
And judging by the look on his face, I was pretty sure that lesson had sunk in.